Wednesday, June 21, 2017

Life lessons from the flower garden ... part deux

Today, God showed me another great lesson in life through a some hanging flower baskets and the stress they went through.
     A couple of months ago, hail and rain storms raged through our area, almost on a daily basis.  It was the middle of May and everyone was chomping at the bit to get their flower baskets hung by the awning with care and get those wonderful bedding plants in the ground.  But every time we thought it was going to be THE day, we were blessed with more rain, cold nights and hail.
     Well, towards the first of June, I thought it was safe and headed over to my friends nursery and garden center.  I got several hanging baskets and trays of bedding plants and went home to hang them, lovingly, as I do every year.  It was so fun to get up each morning to give these sweet beauties the care they needed to produce like they are designed to do.  I also had enough bedding plants to take care of Memorial Day Weekend when we always plant flowers on all the family grave sites.
     Then, it happened.  Karl, the greatest man alive, and I had been up in the mountains all day, having a great time playing with our daughter and family who were visiting for the weekend.  It was beautiful and sunny most of the day, but started to cloud up later, so we headed home.  As we got about 1/2 way home, we came upon a four-car accident and realized that accident had happened because of the several inches of hail on the ground, creating marbles under the tires of those cars.  By the time we had come through, there wasn't anything on the roads, but the sides of the road looked like it was winter and had just snowed 3"!
     Pulling into our driveway, my heart sank.  ALL my flowers had been pummeled. These two, pictured at the right, had fallen earlier in the week because of the incredible winds, so I had placed them on the ground until I could get better hooks on the overhangs. As you can see, the hail took them out. 
     The ones still hanging suffered, but only on the exposed side. Thankfully, they didn't look like a complete loss and all I needed to do was turn them around and no one would really see the damage. 
    
     This kind of weather went on for a few more days - Karl and I even got creative on how to protect the plants we couldn't store in the garage.  I literally had those hanging baskets and the four trays of bedding plants in the garage for over a week.  It was so wonderful when the weather started cooperating.
      To finally get to the lesson I learned, today.  As I was doing my daily fun in the sun with these flowers, I was noticing how the two, pummeled, seemingly destroyed hanging plants were coming back nicely.  They had scars on their wee little stems, but new life was pushing from all directions, declaring their strength and viability.  It was at that moment, that whispering voice of the Holy Spirit mentioned how that is like my life. 
     I have been pummeled by life, as everyone has.  Some of that beating came from poor choices I've made.  Some has come from poor choices others have made and I happen to be there to participate, not always as a choice.  And, as the two plants that were totally beat down, they seemed hopeless, as I have also felt hopeless. 
     God was showing me how He never gives up on His children.  That even when life, by our choice or the choice of others, beats us down to a place of utter hopelessness, we always have hope in Jesus, who loves us, showers us with loving care, and nurtures us back to health. 
     If you take a look, now, at the two plants side-by-side, one is recuperating much faster than the other.  He showed me how that is ok, too.  Everyone is different and grows at different paces.  That it isn't something to give up on, because HE knows what we need, when we need it, how we need it, and where we are going in life.  He is a gentleman and a very fine surgeon.  He does healing surgery little bits at a time.  Can you imagine a surgeon going into our body to remove cancer and just yank it out?  NO - he goes in to intricately remove bit by bit so all the organs remain healthy.  That is how our healing takes place in Christ, too.  And, He never leaves us.  In Hebrews 13:5, God says He will never leave you nor forsake you. 
     I'm betting when those hanging baskets were getting beat to the ground, they felt forsaken.  It is a common response in human life to think God HAS forsaken us when there are hard times - and God was showing me how some people's hard times are worse than others  by the differences in how these three baskets where hurt.  But if we truly understand who Jesus really is, we then know He didn't forsake us.  There is a real enemy to our souls - one who wants to kill, steal and destroy (John 10:10 The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.)  When we really understand the love of Jesus, which can only be accomplished by spending time with him, we understand that our hurts, pain and suffering are really from the enemy and those who didn't know the love of Jesus.  
     So, back to the analogy - if you look at the picture of the recovering hanging baskets, you will still see the scars on their stems from the hail.  But this I know....when the end of the summer arrives, you will have to dig deep in the greenery to find any sign of damage.  That is because they will have had time with their caregiver, showering them with love, food, water and care. (as the picture below - you can't even see the scars anymore - it hasn't completely healed and still is only producing a few flowers on that side, but the scarring is gone).
You can't even see the damage


     The same is in our lives.  We may have the scars, but if we allow ourselves to come under the covering of our Lord and Savior, let Him be our caregiver, to love on us, feed us, water us, and care for us, our scars will be buried in the LOVE He showers upon us.  We will grow into the amazing beautiful creation he designed us to be.  We will no longer be hindered by the damage of those who didn't know Him.  The damage will no longer matter because we know we are a beautiful creation in Him and we will produce the beauty He has created us to produce.  
     Seek Him - Jesus is Love.  He loves you so much, He gave His life for you.  Since we live in a very hurting world, we don't see the love of Jesus, much.  And I've not always been a great representation of that love.  But I am further devoting my life to growing that love, to being consumed by His love.  I've been saved from a mess of a life I had created for myself.  I will  never go back and will ALWAYS live my life for Christ.  He saved me.  I am a new creation.  Old things have been shed off this life and I walk with Him every day - all because of LOVE.






Tuesday, June 20, 2017

Life lessons from the flower garden


I've learned so much from working in my flower garden, lately.  The Holy Spirit is just flowing and I can hardly contain myself.  I love it when I've fertilized the ground of my mind so the Holy Spirit can sow and grown in my spirit.  Why don't I do more of this?  Ah, but alas...that is for another time.
     While out doing the mindless, totally wonderful task of deadheading all the flowers the other day, God whispered this little nugget into my spirit.  It totally made my day!  To think, I (we) have a God who so loves us, He will give us little bits of wisdom in seemingly mundane tasks - we just have to be willing to listen and believe.
     He was showing me that every beautiful flowering plant, in order to keep producing its beautiful flowers, must be deadheaded and that deadheading is a perfect analogy of our lives. We have a beauty impregnated within us when we give our lives to Christ - and He came so we can have newness of life. Old things are passed away (deadheaded, removing guilt, shame, loneliness, hopelessness, sorrow, & pain) and all things are new (new blooms, new flowers, new beauty, new life, new joy, new freedom, new hope). 2 Corinthians 5:17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.
     After the deadheading process, which is throwing off all that baggage and renewing our minds everyday in the newness of Christ (Romans 12:2 Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind, that by testing you may discern what is the will of God, what is good and acceptable and perfect.), we need to water and feed.
     With flowers, I used to just get out the hose and water them, never considering the incredible amount of energy it takes to produce flowers.  Needless to say, my success level at growing stunning, beautiful, flowing flowers was dismal, at best.  It wasn't until I sought the advise of my friends and gardening experts (The Wardell Family at Huerfano Garden and Nursery) that I found plant food is necessary to sustain that level of production.  What a difference that made!!!
     Another life analogy - we need two things to survive physically on this earth:  water and food.  Water is the life blood of our physical being and the Holy Spirit is our life connection to the ways of the Lord, revealed through His word.  John 4:14 says but whoever drinks of the water that I will give him shall never thirst; but the water that I will give him will become in him a well of water springing up to eternal life. Eternal life, never thirsting, always full to overflowing because our cup overflows.
     Then the food - we cannot live on bread alone.  Matthew 4:4 says Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every WORD that comes from the mouth of God. We must have God's Word to give us sustenance, life, abundance, and strength to carry on, to walk this walk of love in Jesus.
     ALL of this is for only one purpose - to produce beauty and love towards those who cross our paths.  After all, what is the point of living this life if it isn't to show Jesus at every turn.  I have a confession to make.  I've not always produced beauty in my life.  I've looked like a neglected plant that was supposed to flower and bring joy and love into other's lives but was sagging, drooping and overall unattractive to be around.  But when I've neglected the time with my Father in Heaven - the one who waters my soul and gives me strength through His Word, I have no energy to be love.  I'm selfish which causes anger, backbiting, gossiping, jealousy, envy and all those other things we see in others and don't like.  I don't like who I am when I've not sought Him with every breath.
     But He is so faithful and so redeeming.  Just like any loving mom or dad, when our children want to spend time with us, we want to shower them with the desires of their hearts.  And He does!!!  But our sole purpose is on this earth is to portray who He REALLY is.  Love.  The Beatles really did have it right - "All you need is LOVE".  The Love of Christ!
     So, embrace the deadheading (shedding the old ways and taking on the new ways of Christ) and fill yourself with food (the Bible) and water, Living Water!  We weren't made to do this alone.  We have a friend in Jesus.  May I always, from this moment forward, show that love......my old selfishness is washed away.
      I'll conclude with the Love Chapter - 1 Corinthians 13
 If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am a noisy gong or a clanging cymbal. And if I have prophetic powers, and understand all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have all faith, so as to remove mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give away all I have, and if I deliver up my body to be burned, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, 10 but when the perfect comes, the partial will pass away. 11 When I was a child, I spoke like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I gave up childish ways. 12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.
13 So now faith, hope, and love abide, these three; but the greatest of these is love.

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